When you dont like the results you are getting from an aspect of your life,change your approach towards it. At the point in my life when i came to know Christ,i wasnt satisfied with how life had been for me so i went into hiding(INTO THE SECRET PLACE OF GOD)to seek answers and i found the answers-Mysteries about my life,my destiny and even my family were been revealed to me. God knows when we are ready for him,GOD SHOWS UP WHEN WE TAKE HIM SERIOUS,he visits us when we make time for him. If you ever think you will come to really know God as a person by your 4 hourly,once a week fellowship with him,you would never know him,you may know what he can do and is capable of doing but you would never know the person of God.