As a guy work hard and live a nice life. Stop eyeing people's money. Stop bothering about people using iPhones and travelling to fucking Dubai. I'm not saying iPhones are bad, I personally love iPhones, but just fvvcking worry about some things until you can afford it. As long as you're broke iPhones are overrated. Learn how to despise things you can't afford. Try balance your life small. You need a little bit of everything. No be say you get only 500k for your hand you wan buy iPhone 12. You dey try to compete with Davido way don already balance im life. That's why you fucking unhappy. I feel balance is key to happiness you need a little bit of everything. This life eh, you gats dey sure of basic needs as a human being that's food, shelter and clothing before you add up extra things. Try dey live your life scale. No ever dey try compete for this money spending thing because you no go ever win I promise you. Boys go always get money pass you. You Me way dey talk this things no be say I perfect sha. But as I dey advice others, I dey take style they advice myself by extension. And abeg try dey enjoy by budget, you know fit afford Dubai yet no mean say you no fit go vacation. Go to Ghana, go to Kenya, if that wan too much, go to another state in Nigeria. Last last na still vacation. There are still beautiful places in Nigeria you haven't seen yet. Don't deprive yourself of vacation because e no fit afford the expensive ones, the Instagram friendly ones. Even the Nigeria way no dey like America sef, you never still enjoy am finish.