Are Nigeria Girls Useless? My Candid Opinion

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I've been coming across various posts on this forum about how women and mostly women are useless and why men should avoid them at all cost. This is not only a naijaworld plaque. It is also on twitter with traces on Facebook. In my honest opinion I do not see women or Nigeria girls as useless. Rather I see people who understand their values and exploit it to the fullest. For instance, when we ask what a woman has to offer in a relationship, a lot of us do not know that the answer to that question is very obvious. But because we are asking the wrong question, we get the wrong answers. A woman does not have to bring anything tangible to the table. Hear me out please. If a woman must bring something tangible to the table, then you must ask yourself why you keep preparing lines, working hard to get a girl's attention who you are confused has nothing tangible to offer you. First off, you are not doing a woman a favour by liking her, asking her out or taking her places. She was on her own, then you saw something you love, a value which you liked and made you to approach her. Herself being a woman is a value. This is why it is often hard for a woman to walk up to a man to toast him on her own. In doing so, she is declaring that she has no inherent value and automatically becomes the one to work hard to measure up to your standards. Women have an inherent value just as you as a man have an inherent strength and do not need much workout to beat almost 80% of women on earth in a fight. As such, they have themselves to offer in a relationship. Not just their body but their presence, laughter, conversations and smiles. Trust me those things are what your money can never buy and if you have ever been loved truly b a woman you'll understand this to the fullest.

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