It may seem like we live in a world where women are more empowered about speaking about their feelings. Especially as regards men. Yes? Alas, the old-fashioned ways are stronger than we think. Ranging from the fear of rejection to the fact that they do not want to be taken for granted, many Nigerian ladies share why they will rather create the opportunity for the guy to ask them out, to asking him out outrightly. Of course, we have the daring ones who believe they can make it happen and won't mind asking him out first.