I've finally made up my mind to get married. Please forgive any errors in my post. I created this account to remain anonymous I am a man of 38 yrs. I decided long ago not to ever get married due to very unpleasant experiences I've had with women. I've had reasons to rethink my decision lately. I have 3 women/girls am considering for marriage, they all have their strengths and weaknesses. As I will list below. Janet: This woman is 39 yrs old, a year older than me. We had a very troublesome relationship that lasted for 17 yrs and produced 2 kids; boys. This woman have done things to me that few people will ever experience in their lifetime. She once locked up my mum in the police cell when I was not around. She brought her boyfriend when she was pregnant and introduced me as her brother. She has taken me to social welfare office and gave false allegations against me. She has accused me of trying to use our kids for money rituals. She has accused me of attempting to rape our house maid which she knows was false. She has gone round the neighborhood telling anyone that cares to listen that am Hiv positive even when she knows it to be false. No evil known to man that she has not done to me and my family. I pay all the bills, takes care of her, she's unemployed and very religious. I still consider her for marriage for the sake of my boys I don't want them to grow up in a broken home. We have been apart for 3 yrs now. Also, at 39 with 2 boys and loads of trouble it will almost be impossible for her to get married to any man. She's 26 yrs old and a single mother,(she gave birth at 17 with her 1st boyfriend) I met her after I stopped cohabiting with Janet and got a new apartment. She's what many will call a high class lady, she clubs,she dresses to kill, she drinks and we smoke together, she's the one that even taught me how to roll properly Despite all these, she has a very good character and personality better than most girls who doesn't do what she does.I've met quite a few. She doesn't hide who she is. She's a very good cook, she cleans and she's very neat. This lady is also special cos I've come to understand that things fall into place whenever she's around me, I've never lost any business opportunity or favour whenever she's with me. Whenever I tell her of challenges am facing, she will tell me that as long as she's with me that I will never fail to achieve whatever I want and this have always been the case. 3 times I brokeup with her just to test if she being around me have anything to do with the good fortune or if it's a mere coincidence. Things started crumbling around me. Clients no longer takes my calls, some of my contracts were terminated for no good reasons, clients will refuse to pay me for no reason. Everything will come back to normal immediately we reconciled.(this mystery about her is beyond logic) I am considering her for marriage for her personality, the good fortune she brings to my life and business. Queen is a 20 yr old girl that is very beautiful and a virgin. She loves me so much. she even told her mum about me. She's yet to gain admission into the university. Her parents have agreed that we should go ahead with marriage on the condition that she will graduate before coming to stay with me as wife. Her mum is optimistic that we will make a good couple, she told me to come with my people cos other suitors are coming for her daughter' s hand in marriage and she will prefer her daughter marries me. Somehow, I am not comfortable with her cos of our age difference; I am 18 yrs older than her. Girls of her age are known to change or become promiscuous when they get into the university. I am considering her for marriage because of her beauty, her love for me,her smartness her parents support to the our union. There you have it guys, which of these women/girls do you think I should get married to?