Your pastor is not perfect- He said something that I do not agree- Learn to forgive and study God's words The sister did not greet you well yesterday, learn to love , greet her well even if she does not greet you well. That usher has an altitude sometimes- greet even thought they act snobbishly- Greet him well and tell him that you love him as Christ loves the Church Every time she or he gives his or her testimony, I get jealous - be happy for them- Your own will come too. Do not be an agent of division- Speak out if you see sometime wrong or goes against God's commandment e.g abuse of any kind could be sexual, financial and so on. Do not be quiet, tell the others in the church so they can be corrections. Learn to love - Ask God to show you how to love- no one holy pass , your Pastor is Human too. God qualifies one and anoint ones. Respect your elders in the Church and follow what God want to. Support your Pastor and pray for them 1 Corinthians 12:12 For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ. 13 For in one Spirit we were all baptized into one body—Jews or Greeks, slaves[a] or free—and all were made to drink of one Spirit.