My Dad is been used; Hello everyone, I am not the kind of person that do share my issues with people, I rather find a solution to heal the situation than allowing people's opinion that would be decisive at times and can also get you more confused to decide my next in action. My Dad's attitude has totally changed towards his children and this is exactly what's about to tear us his children apart from him. I don't even know where to start from. Before I start, I want to let you know that my Dad is a good and a God fearing man even up till this moment but we his children don't really understand what's going on in our family again. My Dad lost his wife about 12years ago and till date we have been living happily after we lost our dear mum to breast cancer. Then, being the first son amongst my Dad's 7 children ,I was in Jss3 and about writing my Junior waec when my mum gave up the ghost. Since I lost my mum, Dad has been taking a very good care of us to the extent of making sure he cater for our spiritual through prayers, seeing i and my elder sister through university although we also contributed enormously to our educational project and thank God today we are graduates waiting to be mobilized for Nysc. I and my sister (graduate also) are currently working as we wait for Nysc mobilization and make sure we don't bother our Dad financially. Still, we make sure our family don't lack little things we can afford. It happened that there's these girls (23+) with their siblings sometimes that do visit my Dad almost every Sunday and any day they visit my siblings will leaves the sitting room we are managing to other room in isolation showing disapproval on their faces. My siblings will serve these girls food and when they are about leaving they will be served the second plates while my siblings would be looking for food to eat. My Dad will be the one to invite them and he will be the one to pay for their transport fare. My Dad will be the one to put them through in their choices and decisions through calls and texts. I and my siblings also noticed that he do make calls behind us. My Dad will be the one to take food to them in their workplace because they work close to my Dad's shop. The parent of these girls never asked of my siblings and he will be the one asking and catering for some of their needs. My Dad is still carrying out his responsibilities but he gives these girls too much attention and the way thinks are going he's emotionally attached to them. I and my siblings have respectfully called my Dad condemning the act but he's so stubborn to listen to our yearnings and stood his ground that nothing can change it. One Sunday afternoon, one of these girls announced to one of my sisters of her decision to attend a handcraft training institute close to my house and a bit close theirs. This my sister jokingly asked her where she would be staying for the one year training (abi she would be staying in the school hostel) my sister was shocked when one of the girls told her she will be staying with us. Beware, this my sister is not in any way in support of my Dad's sudden attitudinal changes that have made him channel all his attention to these girls and their household. My Dad never told us all these, even to to consult us his children, but we heard it from one of the girls. In our two room apartment(face me I face you house). My elder sister had to calm everyone of us down in order confront my Dad. We are about saying our prayer and interrupted by asking him if what one of the girls said is true. My Dad became angry, yelling and telling us that no one has the right to question his decision and it final. And no one would stop him. Please help us. I don't know what to do about this situation as I have younger ones my Dad should focus on than giving all your attention to these girls and family of a mother and a father still young and alive with 11 children.