5 years ago when we started our relationship, it was awesome. You were the best and a dream of every young man who needed a caring lady to make a wife. But indeed not all that glitters are gold. Just few months in our relationship you slept in a hotel with a POP ceiling holding a bottle of night train wine. When I saw the picture I simply asked were is this place, you told me it was your bedroom which I later confirmed you lied to me. As time goes by we continued and we were ok, until you invited your Ex to my Estate i was living then. After which you started meeting him in his Hotel room each time he was around. I was still observing you. The straw that broke the camel back was when a dark skin man on a faithful Sunday afternoon traced you from your matrimonial home to my resident and started banging at my door that he saw her wife entry my apartment, I was shocked beyond words couldn't believed what I was hearing so I refused to open my door. I called two of your siblings to come witness what was happening. They both came and confirmed to me that you are legally married to this man and you are still his wife till date. He happens to be same man I saw his picture hanging on your living room the day I visited your house and then when I asked who was that, you lied to me that he was your late brothers picture. I had to apologize to your husband and siblings that you never told me you were married and your brother prayed for me that God should forgive my ignorance and place a course that Gods wrath will visit me if I continue having Adulterous life with you. And later when I asked you while you cheating on your husband, you said he was not man enough to satisfy you in bed. By now you were already pregnant for me as you claimed and was even threatening to take your own life I had to call your friend Esther to intervene so you not end up harming yourself. I told you it was over between us and you were crying asking me about our unborn child you were carrying, I even advice you if you don't want the man again you have to officially divorce him, let your family members be aware so I can be bold to come see your parents to seek your hand in marriage, you were so reluctant about my advice and you did nothing about it, you said in Kaduna once you are no longer interested in marriage you can just walk out not like your state that you have to let your families aware of your decision. Few days later we started seeing each other again and you eventually flushed the baby to the drain and you claimed it was my vigorous banging that lead to your miscarriage. All these while I had a relationship which was not really serious in my state before I left for a new appointment. From the way things were going i knew I needed Gods help so I started praying and gradually I started growing my relationship with my delta girl and she later became my wife. But despite am married and even blessed with two kids I was still having an affair with you and my wife and unborn child was infected with STD. God mercies kept us. Finally you have taken your Adulterous life style to another level sleeping around with colleagues and different men at thesame time pretending to me that you are innocent when obviously you don't even have time for me again, in a month I can barely have an engagement with you once. your excuse is now am married you are not free coming to my house again. I suffered lots of emotional trauma trying to fix things between my family and also making you happy, I totally failed from being a responsible man. On your birthday night I saw lots of strange faces and my friends that were around that I bragged to them about you and one even paid for your cake another arrange snakes for your quests witness how things were happening and hard some words about you that same night from other inviting, I became upset that night I have to be drunk to calm myself. Even right in my presence you now make romantic calls and pretends as though you are in your house just as you may be doing to me when you are in your series of guys houses. Well thanks for all the misery you brought into my life I know Gods mercies will see me through and grant me forgiveness. I wish you best of luck in your other phase of life after 40.