This is my observation with two ladies. The First Lady. I saw her on facebook and liked her. I sent her a friend request and she accepted. I have read some articles from iLegend and was about practicing having a conversation with ladies. I used most of his lines and they were working fine. The girl won't stop laughing and I was enjoying every moment of it. So I requested her number but with a harsh tone( I didn't read this one from iLegend o). She protested that I was too harsh and that she won't give me her number. I didn't apologize because I felt she wanted me to beg for her number. Moreover to me those words weren't harsh. Well, she ended up giving me her two numbers but so unfortunately I didn't do the do because I couldn't progress further with the banter, I became cold so stopped talking to her. Second Lady. She sent me a friend request and I accepted. While we chatted, I felt within me that this lady have ghosted me already as she wasn't taking my chatting any serious. So I changed my pattern of chat, I went with broken English. You can easily feel me in the way I expressed myself. She asked me to revert to using correct English but I refused. She stopped chatting with me for three days. But we are back to chatting terms and ofcouse, I still make use of my agbero English ( I no even sabi better English). She came around yesterday but I wasn't really good at having conversations with her maybe because of anxiety. She is a doctor and she manages a hospital. I am still learning the art of good conversation and the game of women. I have come to realize that one need to learn almost everything in life and learn with passion.