The economic crisis that gripped us in 2015 till date has left many people slipping into poverty and it has also brought up a few well doers, but like they say, "a rich man in the midst of poor people is still a poor person''. Sometimes you get calls from people who you would least expect wanting to lend a few monies from you with the hope to pay back at a latter date but that's another story for another day. This could also be one of the reasons why loan shark companies have been basking in people misery charging high interest rate when it is hard meeting up. On the flipside, a lot of people who are bamboozled with so many financial request here and there don't have a vault of unlimited of resources to go around tendering to everyone's need. Sometimes, it can only go around helping a few people at a time. And even when you say "NO" how dare you say no? The late music mastero "Sikiru Ayinde Barrister" talked about this in one of his songs "Reality" where he said that people who you used to help before or give in bit could in turn call you a selfish or self centered person forgetting that it was that person who gave when he had in abundance. As much as you may be moved to be generous towards peoples plight giving and helping people with money and financial resoruces without expecting anything in return sometimes you may even forget to even spoil yourself and consider yourself as priority sometimes. People deserve a break too. One of the best proven way we can lift each other economically is through group economics and taking good use of potentials available in our community. This in anyway shouldn't deter people from lending a hand while building your financial arsenal in your productive years but sometimes try and cut yourself some slack.