Before I met My girlfriend , me and my best friend Sam were really close , I have other friends in my circle but Sam was the closest He comes to my house every day to eat , play ps4 and catch cruise with me , we do almost everything together , Because of my PS4 game and availability of Skutches and Food my friends use to come over to my place almost every day Sam has been supportive , he gives me the best advice and was always there whenever things go wrong . But since I started dating my girlfriend , Me and Sam hardly see or talk because my girlfriend is the type that is big on privacy. And because of my Love for her I always let her have her way Recently me and my babe started having issues which was all my fault and because of this she left my place and this brought me and Sam back together , after a while I was missing my her and Sam suggested we go to her place so that I can apologize to her since she has refused picking my calls or seeing me. I got to her apartment and asked a friend to call her for me , she sent the friend back to me that she is coming, after waiting for an hour I got angry and tired of waiting so we decided to leave , As we were. leaving Some guy I don't know intentionally brushed his shoulder against mine , and instead of him to say sorry he just kept walking away . Sam got angry and confronted him only for the guy to insult Sam, this angered sam so he gave the guy an hot slap and when the guy tried to raise his hands , sam gave him the beating of his life before he ran away ,. We were still walking to the junction when about 10 guys reappeared with big strong plank , seeing this I managed to run away but Sam stayed back to fight them but I guess he was overpowered.. About an hour later , sam got back home and there were bruises all over his body , he was badly injured , he blamed me for leaving him behind and I begged him, he then make calls and before I know it about 7 guys came to my house with cutlass , I realized that the fight has escalated to cultist fight , I tried to talk sam out of it because that is the same area my girlfriend lives but Sam was too pissed to hear me out.. They left for the area that night and caused a big scene there , they shot gun in the air but could not find all the guys they were able to find 2 out of the guys ,and those 2 were given maximum beating .. While they were beating the two guys they confessed that my girlfriend was the reason for their friend's actions towards me ,the guy knew me as the boyfriend and has been trying to get my babe but the girl kept telling him NO , After my friends left the area,My girlfriend landlord have her quick notice after finding out all the noise and drama was because of her .. Immediately Sam did this he left us ,I wanted to beg my babe but she started crying and was insulting my parents and this angered me more,I managed to get her outside and lock the door behind me. after crying and knocking on my door for like 1 hour she finally left .. Now my phone has been buzzing since morning ,all her sisters have been calling to say harsh words to me,her mom who was also aware of our relationship also called my mom to report me and also told her that am a cultist. I'm not a cultist, although I have them as friends but I'm not one . I don't know what to do right now because I still adore her . I need advise..