My brother wants to cause a big problem for me. Let’s call him Kenny. Kenny and I are very close even though I am older than him by four years. Ever since our dad died in 2011, Kenny has been out of control. He was truly very close to our dad…they were buddies but dad died of cancer and Kenny felt abandoned and since then, I have noticed he has not been able to keep any stable relationship. Our mother has not been the nurturing type. Our dad raised us. So, one can say, we actually do not have a great relationship with our mother. I have spoken and counseled Kenny on how he has been behaving and he keeps telling me he is good but he has no plans to marry. So, soon as any relationship starts getting serious, he backs out cos he is not ready for marriage. A few months ago, a friend of mine sent her younger brother’s fiancee, who is engaged to be married in June this year, to my house to do some shopping for her upcoming wedding here in Lagos. This young lady stayed in my place and I was supposed to take her shopping but I could not because something came up in my business. I had to use my driver too..so I planned to get her an Uber but that morning my brother came around and he just casually said…don’t worry…I can take her to the island…am going towards VI. I looked at my brother…I gave him that warning look…to see if he was just looking for a fine girl to ride with him…he didn’t care…he was like…na you sabi… I asked this girl and she said she does not mind. So I let him take her to Balogun and casually said…Kenny she is taken o….we all laughed about this. He and this lady went shopping. What I did not know was that after that day, they both stayed in touch and started a friendship even when this young lady left Lagos back to Calabar. I just found out that this girl has been secretly coming to Lagos to see Kenny and they been having an affair. My friend just called to me that her brother’s fiancee has called off her wedding with her brother of two years and that she is in love with my brother Kenny. I thought this was a joke cos they only met one day …not knowing they been sneaking behind my back and being freaky.