I Am Confused. Need Advise!

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Hello guys. Good morning. I'm in a state of confusion now, please don't judge me. Last year, I met this girl, we got talking and along the line, we fell in love with each other. She was a virgin and one thing led to another, I took her virginity(my mistake). This girl loves me so much, I cannot explain it, she has introduced me to her mom and I know almost everything about her and her family, pls note, I'm a medical student and I'm not even ready for marriage or anything of such in the nearest future, she will be graduating early next year. She has always been reminding me never to break her heart, she wants to marry me, she wants this and that. Now, the problem I have with this girl is that she has never assisted me once since we started dating, very dependent on me, always I love you, I'm here for u and those nonsense that won't add value to my life. She's so dramatic too and very emotional, it has made me lose a lot of interest in her lately, but I know for sure she loves me very much. Why this? So not long ago, I stumbled on this lady, we also got talking but it was on purely on friendship grounds but this girl started having feelings for me cos I was always there for her and comforted her when she needed it. I don't know what happened but I asked her out and now we're dating. Few months into dating this lady, this girl has impacted so well in my life, she gets me stuff(I'm not concerned about this but guys will understand the value a lady gets when you're not the only one giving) and she's now even teaching me how to make money online by legitimate means. This girl loves me like mad, she says if I break her heart, she's going to hurt herself and all that. I won't lie, I've feelings for her too cos I see her as someone who can make a good family and help a man stand, she's also very independent, she hardly requests for anything and according to her, "she wants just my love" Now my problem is, how do I even let one of them go?. How do I let the former or the latter go?. I broke the former's virginity and I'm scared she'd be so hurt if I break her heart like that cos she really loves me. Now this, I really want her cos she has value, a whole lot of value and of course I also love her. How do I even go about this?. I'm very confused. I don't want to hurt anyone. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. I wish I can just let the two of them go and get a new life. What do u guys suggest I do?.This is no fiction, I get really worried anytime I think about the whole thing.

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