Good day naijaworlders.I'm here to seek your opinion and validation on this very issue. I'm 36 years old with 4 kids, a boy and 3 girls for my husband. I live in delta state with my children but my husband reside in Benin where he does his transportation work.Things were quite rosy and fair in the early times of our marriage, but after I gave birth to our second child everything begin to spiral in the awkward and messy direction.My husband stop visiting home, calling or even sending money for our upkeep.I began to notice the affection and love was not there any longer.After sometimes I got to find out my husband has married another woman over there which even his family was even aware. So I knew I and my children has finally come to the bitter moments of our lives.Being an hard working girl from home, I quickly started farming with my little children as no help was coming from my husband and his family, only my family was supporting us and I didn't want to be overly reliant on them..At that same time I started organizing class lesson for some children with the vision of turning it to a primary school by the help of God.And yes in 2 years time I was now having kg 1-3 and primary 1-5. I and my 4 children could now have something to eat without calling for the help of my husband which he off course was no longer concern whether we eat or not let alone paying the children fees.had it not been I had the vision of school, how would I have been able to pay the school fees of 4 kids. Now the problem started last year after I decided to go see my husband and ask him why he had abandoned us without even calling or sending anything.I did so while I visited home as he lives near to my hometown in Edo state.I got to see him and I question him a lot on many things. He was looking so indifferent all thru our conversation as tho I was a total stranger. So it dawned on me that this one no longer the Man i married. Something must have gone wrong some where So, I went back to delta state that same day in tears.After few months my husband began to accuse me that I'm the one responsible for the I'll health of her wife over there.He said since the day I came to see him she had been sick till date.I do not know where he got such information from but I clearly know I had no hand in such offense....... Ever since then to this day it has been hell for I and my children as my husband had been calling me a witch everywhere.He came with the wife to delta and called his family people to tell them that I'm the one responsible for her second wives predicament.and the worst is that even his people has taken sides with home. Now while we went home during Xmas my family people invited him to possibly sort out our marriage but he declined from coming.Now,my family people said I should come back home and quit the marriage but my nightmare Forfeiting my already blossoming school.how will I be able to take care of this 4 children starting from the very scratch again. You and I already know the situation of things in this country...Would you encourage me to continue in this marriage hoping things will get fine or better pack my thing and move away with my children. Pls I need polite opinion on this, no insult as the woman is standing right here to read every of your opinions..everything I have written is what she had told me, she's my neighbor here and a very amazing one. Thanks all.