You don't know SATAN young minds. Never follow his method, concept or his ideology, he will misrule you and corrupt your good manners. e.g, your wife is tired and hungry, and you are preparing stuff in the kitchen, and she is asking, can we share, or can I add this to what you are cooking, you flame up, as if it is her exclusively requirements to prepare food for the husband and since there's no food, she should be held responsible. You husband can also prepare food for your tired wife. But because of your devilish mindset, upside down traditional customatic sensual earthy young minds, he wouldn't help, he will trade his family for his ego. Humble yourself in the mighty hand of God Almighty and he will exalt you in due course. Follow the Holy Ghost, you'd be shining brighter and brighter unto a perfect day of harvest, our rapture. Hallelujah