I Love And Enjoy All Of Them, I’m Confused About Who To Pick

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I am 21years old and unemployed. I don’t know what I will be doing but I know I am ready for marriage. I met this guy when I visited a friend in a compound house. The guy is also 21yrs, a teacher, a pastor and a businessman with a promising future. I had a crush on him and prayed that we get close. He is really handsome with a huge cucumber. I started approaching him and helping him small small with cooking and washing. Lo and behold, one day we chopped each other and this guy cried on me all day that I made him sin against God. I felt bad because that was his first time. We later started chopping each other secretly and I was happy it was going on well and hopefully he would propose. One day his friend who I will name Josh came to visit him from Uni. Josh asked my crush, “who is this beautiful girl?”. My crush replied, oh I am his friend. Josh asked, “just a friend or beyond friend?”. He said just a friend. Josh said, “then pls I am going to shoot my shot because I like her”. My crush replied why not. You are a good friend and I won’t recommend a bad wife to you. Straight away, Josh approached me and proposed marriage because he is in final year in the university doing Theology and needs to marry before he can get ordained. I was hurt my crush could not say we have been chopping almost 3 times everyday for 6 months. Josh took me to his parents and the family received me soo well and started training me how to be like a pastor's wife. A month after I came back from my In-law’s place, my crush would not leave me alone. He came crying that he was joking that I am not a good woman; how come he just said that and I agreed to Josh’s proposal. I told him I was ready for marriage and he never proposed. He said this day and age people don’t propose. I still took Josh to my parents and they accepted him and he comes over from school weekend just because he missed me and enjoyed the chopping. He was also a virgin. When he comes over, my crush will spend the whole night at our window listening to how we were chopping. The next day he will call me to his place to tell me everything and cry how he can’t let me go and I will calm him down by letting him also chop. Their behaviour was too much for me that I had to leave town to clear my head. I went to my sister in Kumasi and unfortunately for me, I met this doctor who started pursuing me for marriage. I told him why I left my hometown but that made matters worse because he then thought it is best he takes me away from both of them. I stayed there for 3months and the doctor spoiled me with soo much gifts and love. One day he invited me to his place which............... Continue reading here:

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