Why a second Marriage is not necessary for a man If you've been married before and it didn't work out, why do you want to tie yourself up in knots and trouble again ?? If it is sex you need, why don't you patiently look for an Ashi who does regular STD tests and visit her whenever the urge comes but make sure you use protection. An Ashawo is cheaper financially and emotionally than a wife as she will not give you any stress like a wife will, she will satisfy you on the bed like a wife can't and you are not under any obligation to see her a second time and as such you are free from the troubles and drama that a wife gives a man than WILL shorten a mans life. Reason and ponder on the above especially men who had been married once before. DON'T DO IT A SECOND TIME. SEX YOU CAN GET WITHOUT MARRYING A WOMAN THAT WILL FRUSTRATE AND SHORTEN YOUR LIFE.