The society believes a woman should allow a man to initiate a relationship. Because of this belief,a lot of disadvantages have come up for the women. One of the disadvantages is that most women end up with cheaters and players as boyfriends or husbands. This is because cheaters and players are the ones who frequently go to women to initiate a relationship. They are good in convincing a woman because they are in the game and they know how to play and get a woman not because they love her but because they want to exploit her sexually. Consequently, those men that can be faithful and can stick to one woman, are not getting women as the cheaters and players who are always in the game. So it is better that a woman should initiate a relationship.A woman can observe a man who is faithful and is not a player. She can observe a man who is faithful to his girlfriend and who loves his girlfriend. She can then approach him and propose to him. I know a few friends who are not into pursuing after women. They are very faithful, caring and gentle. They don't have girlfriends because they are not in the game. They are well established.But they lack girlfriends. I equally know some men who are great players.They are always looking for new girlfriends and sex.They are cheaters. And because of how the society makes it, they are always getting ladies as wives and girlfriends because they approach almost all ladies as is possible. The result is that most women end up with cheaters and players as boyfriends and husbands. If a man is allowed to be the first to propose, women will end up with cheaters and players. If women are the first to approach a man, she would be able to select a god fearing, faithful man.