My boyfriend is currently having an issue with getting or maintaining an erection even in the morning after waking up. He tried to have sex with me some days ago but it wasnt something I really wanted, it didnt exactly work out(go in) but there was blood and I dont know if I can still say I'm still a virgin. Regardless, he's not spiritual however he says that things like this happen and it is mostly the girl at fault, maybe due to a spiritual connection or something(it happened to his friend and he confirmed that it was a girl he tried to have sex with that was at fault spiritually), I did ask him to see a medical practitioner because he consumes quite a lot of soft drinks and the likes, and he has taken some tests while waiting for results. However I'd like to know if there has been anyone in this sort of situation and what was done about it. Modified: he doesnt masturbate, usually has an erection until trying sex with me that day.