MOST COMMON PARENTING PROBLEMS AND WAYS TO OVERCOME THEM (cont.d) Consistent Tantrums Complaining and whining is different from throwing tantrums. Some children have this habit of not voicing their concerns. The only way they make their feelings and frustrations known is by throwing tantrums. Usually when children do this, they create chaos, scatter or spoil things. Actually, lots of parents are not sure of the best way to handle this kind of behavior from their kids. It's necessary to help kids learn to behave right by constantly communicating with them in love and from their early years before the habits gets formed 'totally' in them. Parenting isn't a day's task neither is it a 5 years task. There's no layed down rule in particular that guides/prepares parents though one could research, read books, makes enquiries from the older ones about how they did theirs and succeeded. It takes patience, understanding, wisdom, tact, prayers and so on to train children aright. It is important to be calm as a parent. Breathe in and breathe out. Decide in your mind that you will not lose your patience but instead handle it aright at that very instance when the child is throwing the tantrums. After the child quiets down, let him understand that you're ready to listen to him or her and be understanding. You might want to tell him or her a short story of why it's good to communicate your feelings with your parents. If the above doesn't work, ignore them and get busy with your work. When the child sees that you're not moved by his or her tantrum, he/she will come back to you and try to talk to you about his or her wants. ����� Kindly Follow us, like and comment for more useful tips concerning you and your kids. Do well to chat us up for your elegant, unique, quality and affordable kids dresses. You can CLICK on this link for purchase or DM for enquiries: A trial will definitely convince you �. Thanks for taking out time to read this post�. Do have a lovely day�.