1) looks and swag doesn't bring food to the table. Work hard and stop the pretense. 2) there are so many girls out there but few are wife materials. 3) you will discover that 2k can solve a lot of problems. 4) trying to impress your girlfriend/boyfriend is as useless as the P in psychology. 5) this sex you see as a god or something you can't do without will one day become a burden to you . 6)love is not the only thing to consider in marriage. Brain,character, etc is an important feature . 7)beauty is not brain. Have someone who can solve problem with he brain. patience and endurance is a difficult quality. 9) simping a little to your wife might be one of the ways to have a successful marriage. 10) add yours.