I think that this silent beef between us should change. I have seen career women gloat when housewives come to them for financial help. These housewives are mocked for choosing to be home makers and totally reliant on their husbands. Meanwhile, as the working wife contributes financially to her household, her partner is relieved of financial stress and could be spending the extra savings on his mistresses. The housewife will also gloat when they hear that something bad has happened to the child of a working wife because the working wife doesn't spend time as much time with her children. But the housewife cannot buy cough syrup for her toddler because oga is not around and the child may be hurt too. The truth is that no woman should expect to get back 100% of whatever she puts in her home. That was how our society was designed and it is the same for all women. Instead of forming cliques and beefing each other, let us find ways to form a unifying support system.