I left Kano in 2015 heading to Asaba after many years in the North. I simply called my girlfriend and broke up with her. She cried but i can't continue wasting her time. But we still keep in touch. 2019, i was to go to kano to get my original WAEC result after many years of leaving sec sch. I notified her and we agreed to meet when i'm through. Long story shot, we ended up doing plenty kpakpakpo before running back to my base. Last year i marry my baby girl here in Asaba and my ex is very much aware. Around early December last month, my ex called me that she and her fiance are coming to Asaba for his sister wedding. This is a girl that has never travelled south. By 25th december, they're already here and she said she want us to see. How? I told her please i dont want to cause any problem for her ooo, better concentrate on your fiance so that you can settle down too. She insisted there would be no problem. Ok now. As devil will help us, my wife travelled to their village to do xmas. My ex located my house and fkk hell out of me. Cheating is sweet sha. She rushed back. 5th Jan, we spoke and she said they're going back to North on the 7th. I told her to come and finish what she started b4 going back. Without delay, she agreed to see me on the 6th. Long story shot, this one was more beautiful as we cum same time. She made it happen by taking charge. Moral of my story: Okafors law is real and aided by communication. To avoid Okafors law, stop keeping in touch with your ex. There's cheating tendency in most people.