Forgiving And Distancing

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I want to ask, is it right to forgive somebody and distance yourself from that person? I have this person that is always angry, if she ask for loan, and I tell her that I can't give her, she get really upset and won't talk to me again till I visit her out of my tight schedule and joke with her (this is one example out of many, many, many). Its tiring being the one to always apologize even when I know the matter shouldn't have brought any anger or problems. There is another person, she is angry over what I did unknowingly, she didn't tell me, rather she stopped talking to me, it was another person that told me why she is mad at me, I called her immediately and sort things out with her, but I'm afraid of getting close to her again, we talk whenever we see but I'm afraid of offending her unknowingly again. I love open minded people, if I offend you just tell me immediately, and I'll gladly apologize and we move on. Some people if u call them by their real name sef, them don't vex. So is it right to avoid some people with good intentions?

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