Why Are Most Men Attracted To Young Boys

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Hi, I am Nasir, I just turned 18 last month and I have a story to share based off my experience and what I have noticed over the years. Growing up, I was really smart coupled with the fact that I was equipped with so much knowledge from an early age (Through books, internet etc). When I was just 13 (JSS3) - I began to notice that older men (In their 20's, 30's up to 60's) always had their eyes on me (In such an awkward way) (Note - I wasn't the most handsome, just normal average light skinned.) I always wondered and pondered why most of these guys (The ones who are 10, 20, 50 times older than me always staring at me in a sexual way that denotes attraction). My pears who were 12,13,14 didn't give a shit about me, the older women didn't give a shit about me, it was always the older guys. This made me lose all confidence while growing up, it made me uncomfortable around people (Mostly the older guys). I hated going out, cause they were always looking at me…At a point, I even stopped moving around the streets. I was always looking at the mirror to check how I looked. While, there is an outpour and awareness of sexual molestation that occurs between young girls and older men. There isn't such amongst young boys and older men. NOTE - I have never been sexually molested by any older guy, I was smart enough to sense danger when I was 12 and 14 - when such thing almost happened between myself and a man who was in his 30's and 40's respectively. [Not all pre-teen/teen will have such level of awareness that I had]. This is extremely shocking to me as one would think - a country as Nigeria where most men seem to be homophobic is the one flooded with men who cant take their eyes off young boys. You would be shocked that these men who are attracted to young boys are the ones that tend to be the most homophobic. You would begin to wonder if the young boys that they are attracted to aren't "Thesame sex" as they are. I am not gay/homosexual but whenever I read a post about those sect of people, it's always flooded with hateful, vile comments coming from most of these same men (who I believe are attracted to young boys), makes me shake my head in disgust. Could it be hypocrisy or what?. All my 18 years spent on earth, I have never found young boys attractive or fascinating, I dont know where the attraction is coming from for these guys. Hence the reason I created this post. I have lived in 3 parts of Nigeria, - Abuja (Born and where I live), Kano (Home Town), Ondo (School). It's a common pattern everywhere I lived. So, my question now is - What do most older men (20's, 30's, 40's, 50's etc) find so fascinating and attractive in young boys (12,13,14,15,16–18).? Why do they not consider theirselves as gay/homosexuals since the young boys they are attracted to is rightfully "same-sex" as they are..? Note - Most of these same men are even married with kids. And to the younger folks (13-18) here, please share your experiences with older men...

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