The chasing game as some of us may not understand what this means, I will explain briefly. This is when a girl stalls before saying yes or no and some do not ever come to a conclusion. This definition is not that perfect but you get what I mean already. Now, to the way Nigerian girls understand The Chasing Game, to them it's the time to be abusive, rude and sometimes weigh their options and if being with you favors them, they then say yes! not because they love or reciprocate the feeling but merely for their egoistic nature and wants. However, they're some nice and smart girls who know that times like that is taken for proper consideration. In some cases they consult their 'God', friends, family, their mentor and all that. but do you wantu know the real description of the Chasing game? this is where a guy proves he's worthy of your love, he persuades you to give him a chance, but let's not forget that this guy is not stupidly being persevered, he's seeing green light and this green light is what's goading him on to keep trying, with hopes he will triumph in his love pursuit. This is how it used to be, but now we have guys who don't know when to stop. She already said no, but no! that's when he feels he's the only Casanova in the world and can get every girl. Hello, bros! have you heard of taking your L and trying somewhere else? Merits of the Chasing Game 1. it gives you enough time to get to know your admirer, this is when you ask questions - girls/boys 2. it gives you enough time to know what she likes and dislikes - boys 3. As a girl you can take this to your advantage and make him fall deeper in love with you with constant blinking of signs although this can easily go wrong if you don't know what you're doing - girls 4. This is when you let her know what and what not your capable of as to avoid sending out the wrong msg. for example do not start spending money like you're from Oba as that will only create a picture of you you can't consistently hold, be wise but if you're from Oba, why not? � - boys 5. This is when you share every secret you think can be a potential threat to the relationship ahead - girls/boys Demerits of the Chasing Game 1. Just like every chase it has to come to an end, either it ends with he/she being caught or he/she gets away, it's fine. don't overreact or start sharing rumours and trying too hard, you'll only hurt yourself more - boys/girls 2. Often lead to spite or hatred if the desired expectation is not reached boys/girls 3. Usually leads to financial depletion � - boys/girls 4. One could stall for too long and his or her admirer who could have been the one may not be patient enough and leave - boys/girls 5. lastly, there's no other demerit I'll consider more than that of time wasting! you like me or you no like me � you can add yours!!!