Men Now Cheat And Brags About It

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I had a sleepless night,I’ve been trying so much not to see a big deal in what happened between my boyfriend and I last night but the more I tried my best on it the more my mind continue telling me it’s a red flag. The relationship is just five months and we’ve been good since then,he lives in another state,though just an hour drive to my place,we don’t see frequently but that isn’t a problem cause we are both always busy with business. He’s caring,jovial and also someone who will always tell me “look babe,this is the problem between us ,and can we iron it out instead of you giving me cold attitude?” ,he’s a very understanding guy,he do assist me financially ,not that I am a liability,but helps me with my business and I do help him also,in fact I love lending him money cause he will always pay me back in triple folds. Three days ago,he told me he will be attending a wedding engagement that very day,it was very unusual of him ,cause he do tell me about all his movements but this particular one sounded impromptu,he apologised and said all his friends were around and he dont want to disappoint them. We talked on video call and I sensed everything was good. Few minutes to 9pm ,I messaged him and he told me they were still in town (at a bar) drinking and that he won’t be going home anytime soon that I should go to bed and sleep. He snapped a picture of what they were drinking and sent me,I saw one bottle of malt with straw and immediately I sensed a woman was with them. Initially,he told me it was just four of them on the table,all boys,I put it straight to him that a woman was with him ,he said no and I told him who drank malt amoung them,it was then he said a girlfriend to one of his friends,I smiled and sent him goodnight. He replied the message with “do you think I am cheating?” I replied “who am I to know what exactly you are doing outside by this time? Good night boo”” I switched off my phone and slept off. Note-this is the first time I will ever think of it that he is having another affair. Yesterday was Saturday and he told me he will be attending the church wedding and reception,we talked on video call again and he was updating me about his movements from church to reception and from reception to bar again with his friends. He said he will be staying late again that I may go to bed if I want to sleep, I told him “ humm,shaa maa rora” it means “humm ,just be careful” immediately he replied with “do you think I have a woman here today again? If Naa when I still dey bear my name (his name) you met me,walahi you go don shout tire. I go don Bleep one of your friends self “ I was very shocked but I managed to type really,and he replied with “yes,you for don collect and I no go leave you self, but I am calm now,so put your mind at rest and don’t think I am cheating “ I was very heartbroken,though he sounded like he was actually playing,I’ve been trying to erase my mind off it and see it as a joke but at the same time my mind has be telling me it was a clear red flag since a cheat will always remain one Experience guys,what do you think about this situation?

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