How Pastors, Religious Leaders Have Been Ruining Relationships

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I read a post earlier on about a certain guy whose girlfriend left him because the pastor said they were not compatible, then I decided to share my many experiences here, it might help one or two people. I'll be as brief as possible. FIRST INSTANCE Back then at the university, I was in the third year, there was this tall, pretty lady that caught my attention, though we will all agree with me that most university relationships don't even end in marriages, it was more of lust than love honestly, I walked up to this lady and I asked her out, several months after I'm still meeting brick wall , her excuse was that she was dating a certain working class guy who was waiting for her to round up with school, her families and the guy's family know they were dating ! After many failed attempt, I subdued the pressure and ended up being friendzoned , fast forward to some months after I already gave up, the said lady started showing interest in me with the content of her messages, being a smart guy, I knew something was wrong with her cherished relationship, I asked her , she told me amidst sobs that unfortunately she have to call it quits because the pastor said the guy was not destined for her! In short the pastor asked her to break up with the guy , meanwhile they share the same Christian faith, I wasn't really convinced about the said pastor's prophesy, I was willing to test the pastor's spiritual prowess, I shoot my shot again, this time Elizabeth (not real name ) accepted my proposal on the condition that I have to give her my name for the pastor to pray about it, I hurriedly sent her full names, and waited for the outcome , the next Sunday, after the service, she called me and we hanged out together , she said the pastor saw it in the spirit that I was her chosen partner! I laughed ! I told her the honest truth , the full names I wrote were never my name's! She only knew me with my alias , so the three names were picked from a movie scene and the said oastie couldn't pick someone was messing with his calling ! Lol! I persuaded her to reunite with her boyfriend, but she believed the pastor so so much and didn't want to ruin her future , she decided to stick with me nonetheless, after a couple of bedroom activities and having satisfied my devilish fantasies , we broke up! She went back to her ex, the guy forgave her, today they both lived in Berlin Germany with 2 kids and as far as I know, they are happy together. SECOND INSTANCE Amaka( not real name) was my childhood neighbor in Okota Lagos, she was my younger sister's friend and I found out she had huge crush on me then, meanwhile back then in the secondary school, I was an extremely shy guy, I couldn't walk up to a girl and asked her out, I also like Amaka, but couldn't summon the courage to talked to her, so we both know we liked each other and waiting on anyone of us to make the move, fast forward to some years later , I was out of the secondary school, awaiting university admission, you know those period when you have to stay at home for over a year after WAEC and JAMB, I became a voluntary teacher, Amaka came to the house day knowing I was the only one always at home playing TV games, she asked that I helped her fill the JAMB form she just purchased , one thing led to another we found ourselves kissing, haven't missed before, haven't shagged before, before u say Jack her clothes were down already, apparently she was more experienced having been with older bros in the streets! I ran to aboki to get Condom, took me 10 minutes to wear it,lol ! When it was time to insert the rod, I was sweating and didn't even know where to put my thing! She was irritated and left ! She went around telling the neighbors that I was impotent ! People laughed at me and my ego was battered lol! Fast forward to many years after, I was done with the university , obviously Naija school will spoil u, I have turned to a pro in the game , the pain of missing out on Amaka hit differently! Luckily we met again, this time she was already a single mum, I asked her out, luckily she still liked me ! Meanwhile the only thing on my mind was a revenge! No iota of feeling anymore whatsoever ! She accepted to date him on the condition that I followed her to see her pastor who will pray about it! We went to meet the man, he asked me about my job and all that ! Afterward asked us to knee down and after prayers, he smiled and said Sis Amaka this is your husband, he's a noble man and honest ! Me? Noble? Honest ? Ah pastor Don help me tidy job o! That night we retired to her apartment and shagged like 2 hungry Souls, you know when you're out to prove you're not impotent! The strength will be on another level, it's been almost 10 years now, I have japa and I don't even know where she is again ! Meanwhile the same Pastor asked her to leave a certain guy in the past coz to him God wasn't happy with the relationship.

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