Should I Still Marry Her?

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Good evening all, I met Eniola mid last year during the covik one nine brouhaha. Trust me, ever since then, Eniola have remain a good gal. During the weekend, she comes around my place to cook, and to sort out my laundry. I'm 36, she's 27. A single mother. Eniola makes it an habit of kneeling down when it's time to serve me my food, as it was done in the time past. What else can a man wish for in this so called 'woke' generation? She's respectful to my immediate family, and even kneel down to great my eldest sisters. Eniola is just so nice, which I'm appreciative of. Can you imagine? This gal gave me part of her August salary, and when i enquire what for: "Since the landlord has decided to increase the house rent, add this one to what you will be paying him next month." She said. But now, my reservations are these: Should I go ahead to get married to her, as per she's a single mother? Won't i be accepting and embracing mediocrity, and substandard product as she's factly not a virgin? Won't i be contributing immensely to the decline of a virtuous and traditional woman; who is meant to have her hymen sealed before marriage? Why should i marry a single mother in a situation whereby the biological father of her child didn't wife her up? Ok, fine. Let's say he's 'irresponsible', but why then, did she open her legs widely for him, when it's obvious they ain't getting married soon? Ok, fine. That's 'irresponsible' on her part, so, why should i then marry a seemingly virtuous irresponsible woman? This is the same gal that always quarrel with me anytime i ain't going to church, yet, she had a child out of wedlock, even after making sure she attends all her Church weekly programs. In a nutshell, these are what I have issues with: She's not a virgin She's a single mother She's active on all social media platforms, except from OnlyFans; at least, i ain't aware of that yet. I don't want a situation where by when she has issues with me, she will do an Anita Okoye, Annie idibia on me. Your contributions will go a long way,

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