MARRIAGE SAGA Stand up for your wife, that the best you can do, every woman wants to be sure about her man to defend her any time any day, its our pride. Bending in marriage is very key and it sorts a lot of marital saga. Yea,they say women are complicated but most men are highly complicated too yet it's a rule for each one to learn to compromise at ever cost. Let no one see you as a specimen when marriage comes to play.every marriage has its own guidelines and none is same The blessing of marriage is when both families come in agreement wholeheartedly, prays and supports you both to make things more easier for the couple. Marriage brings about lots of humility and respect of everyone involved, someone says women are meant to be seen not heard, while the men are to take charge of matters and take control of situations Men are expected to be a man and lord while women are expected to be attentive, when marriages comes to play, you will find difficult individuals who are out to spoil and soil your minds and stare up troubles. Discuss major matters with your spouse alone and not everyone who wants to interfere to bring different suggestions that would bring about unwarranted issues. There is a lot of tolerance in marriage that must be exhibited, there are lots of second chances that must be given to play while dealing with a lot of family members and friends. Lots of haze, dramatic tensions and intensional gestures awaits couples who are ready to settle down, many would be out to increase your worries and make you very uncomfortable, yet its advisable to aviod some certain people who tend to be negative with you. After the bride price is paid, a woman's life takes a new turn, your husbands family, your hubby and his friends becomes your new home, don't change for anyone but if you must change, do it for better, there is no handout for a perfect marriage, just strive to be better in marriage as change is constant and it takes a gradual process. Some times you get scared and worry about what you can't handle, the temptations are much to count, yet perseverance will help you scale through. Marriage brings about many wars and hurdles to climb, find someone who would fit in and and who is ready to support you through and through. Parents have their say in our lives, so we have the rigth to settle them for life, when we marry, we are clinged more to our new homes and often times we are carried away to with the new challenges. Most parents makes life unbearable, increase the lists, the starvation, maltreatment and harsh situation, making stupid demands and outrageous demands for selfish reasons. Marriage is a parcel, when you unwrap it you take what you find in it, just make sure that the decision to embark is worth working on for life Vivsravine speaks Or messenge me on Facebook on oparah ahunna vivian or jion my Facebook page on Vivsravine page for more on my write ups on life and relationships.