Please, this is very urgent. I will appreciate all the inputs before i go berserk. I am sorry if i am not at the right section. naijaworlders, like we know, the Nigerian soldiers are no longer what they used to be. Yes! I am calling them out for a positive change. In recent times they have been known for all sorts of human abuse, intimidation, harassment, injustice etc. The dignity, the pride, the love, trust, honesty, strength, faith are all gone. Wicked and evil politicians of Nigeria have infested the army. Some people will still argue there are still the good ones but i haven't heard or met any. In fact there is this incident, an extrajudicial killing anyway that i personally have to swore and curse them. Many Nigerians have done same out of anger or whatever and i believe the so-called good ones will be spared from the wrath of nature. The only daughter in the family of six guys is about to get married. Guess what? It is to an army officer. Of all the men in Nigeria? This bloody institution again? I don't care if he's good or not. Our parents are the type that don't interfere in your choice of spouse. I feel betrayed! I feel pierced! Somebody is just lucky that i am not in Nigeria. How is this going to happen?! I am going to stand in a way of a friend who finds stupid love in the armed forces of Nigeria. Let alone a beloved sister. I am sorry, it is not selfishness but you can still call it whatever you want. This army guy has dared me. How do you prefer i deal with this young man? I will be reading. Thanks as you make your inputs.