9 Undispitable Facts Why Hausa Men Are Not Romantic

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Why Hausa men are not romantic? Romance is a feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love: It is that feeling that a person feels for their partner that keeps the relationship going smoothly. Here are 9 reasons that they're njot! 1. Environmental influence In the northern part of Nigeria, especially the Hausa tribe, most men have little or no regard for women. They see women as too cheap and vulnerable, thereby, treat them badly; contrary to the teachings of the two most practised religions. 2. Poverty It is evident that Northern Nigeria is the most poverty-stricken part of the country, but Hausas are the most affected. And Hausa men are the poorest. As the saying goes, “a hungry man is an angry man” and when one is angry, being romantic is the least on their mind. 3. Spouse's attitude Why Hausa men are unromantic owes to the behaviour and attitude of some Hausa women. Hausa women’s attitude towards their husbands can be unbearable; they are short in manners of approach, hardly assist their husbands financially, and are ungrateful. 4. Unromantic Female Partners A typical Hausa lady is very unromantic. This is because they are socially and educationally backwards. It is so unfortunate that some parents in the North still believe that education is just for men and women are restricted to their family homes. 5. Pride Pride is a common thing in men but that of the Hausas is way beyond your imaginations. Why Hausa men are not romantic stems from the pride in them and little regard for women (except for the very religious ones amongst them). 6. Marrying more than necessary Constant mediation can be very tiring as women can be aggressive and stubborn when upset. A man coming back from work only to meet his wives fighting themselves, can’t be a happy man and as such, shouldn’t be expected to be romantic. 7. Too Much Workload Too much responsibility could be another reason. As the breadwinner of a family, you not only take care of your immediate family, you also have your parents, siblings, some needy relatives, and some orphans left by your siblings to take care of. 8. Environmental influence again Typically, display of love is something usually restricted to homes, Note: restricted to homes. Public Displays of Affection (PDA) is prohibited by tradition. As a woman from the East or West dating a Hausa man and expecting PDA - sorry dear! 9. Their Parents’ Relationship A worth noting reason why Hausa men are not romantic is as a result of the kind of family they were brought up in. Every parent needs to know that how they relate with their partners and children in their home has a great impact on how their children will see ‘relationship’ or ‘family’ as. Most Hausa men see that as a taboo which isn’t. Now how do you expect someone from that kind of family to be romantic in that kind of way you want? Why Hausa men are not romantic cannot be overemphasized. Some of these reasons like poverty and environmental influence are usually pre-determined and therefore, one has little or no say in them.

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