I'll make this as concise as possible. Please read through. My son just clocked 25 this year and he very much doesn't seem to be too serious with his life. He barely associate with his siblings and he seem not to care if he is an adult or not. I won't blame him entirely cause growing up was all rosy and golden spooned for him. I and his father spoilt him so much, being the first child then. He had everything at his disposal and anything he wanted was granted him. He was treated like a man and most especially a king. As a mother, whenever I try to correct him, his father will always come to his rescue. What broke the camel's back was when he sold my husband's car engine, fan and generator. Annoyingly, my husband seemed very much aware of it and still did nothing about it. He has never for once concentrated on his studies and whenever I make mention of his siblings, he always quote his father's properties being his. And how he can send everyone packing if any misbehaves. He told us that he can no longer continue with his education and we should keep our money for more important things. My son is lost and I don't know if he can change. I have spoken to my husband several times and he seemed very much not bothered. I'm really worried and troubled as it is affecting me psychologically as well. How best can someone over pampered from childhood change??