Good evening naijaworlders i feel bad this moment writing this because i feel emotionally blackmailed.. There is this church girl that came to preach to me earlier this year (i wouldnt mention her name) she invited me to her church and i accepted,she took my contacts and started calling me up on Sundays,but here is the thing after attending several of their church meetings i concluded it's not my type of church i don't like their doctrine because it's more like Christ embassy style of teachings so i lost interest.. To make matters worse this girl can call me for Africa,on Sunday mornings she will call ,call,call like 20 missed calls! it was now becoming unbearable,one certain Sunday morning Nepal brought the light late so i decided to charge my phone and quickly rushed to take so i can meet up with morning service,i noticed she called me so many times Amy phone charged on 1 percent .i no longer understand again,even Jehovah's witnesses do not disturb this way.this girl will come to my workplace expecting me to stop work and come to church during weekdays and the thing is she is very stubborn and never gives up,not like i am not interested in Godly things but i want a different church,but this girl thinks her church is the best for me.. Last week she came to my workplace so i used the opportunity to clear her and tell her my mind fully,she kept on insisting she talk to me almost one hour,i don't want to hurt she is doing Gods work,so i gave her all the audience. This evening she came again to my workplace for Thursday prayer meeting,i told her it wouldn't be able to make it that i have a lot of work to do,she kept insisting stubbornly so i had to snub her all through with a frowned face ,she even almost cried And left afterwards. ,this made me to wonder why is it such a big deal i must be a full member of her church?and why is she over emotional about the whole thing,i feel so bad now because i feel i was rude to a preacher was i wrong?