A Friend Needs Serious Advice

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Got talking with a friend who just moved to Lagos about 7 months ago.. About 2years ago, he was in a financial tussle and and couldn't feed his family as things got extremely worst for him.. So his wife advice she goes to her mother's place till things pick up for him. They live in Sango Ota then.. Her wife left for her mother's place at ede with their 2kids..the mother is a civil servant who earns little and she lives in a room. The wife got a job in a bar where she works from 3pm to 10pm and sometimes 11pm.. Now my friend is not dojng bad for himself and decides to move his family to join him in Lagos.. Each time he initiate this move, the wife will look for an excuse not to come.. Said they've discussed this more than 10 times already and just some days ago, the wife told him the manager of the bar she works just got another place and wants to make her the manager.. He said only if my friend could open a shop for her where she sells pet drinks, bottle water and other edible things and my friend said no problem about that but knowing her, she might come up with another excuse. He just got a 2 bedroom apartment and probability of him leaving Nigeria next year is like 80%.. Pls house, what can he do? He loves his wife and missed his kids.. Atleast for a year, he want his kids to be with him. They are just 5yrs and 3yrs and they been separated almost 2 yrs now.. The wife even told him sometimes ago to come pick his kids but he won't be able to cope with the nature of work he does and he can't employ a nanny or house help to take care of them going by what happens nowaday in the country.. Sometimes, he can be away for 2days or a week.. Another thing, he said he doesn't wanna look selfish since his wife might be given a manager role in a new bar. He doesn't want to be like a stumbling block to her though he promised to open a shop, stock it even more than she thinks.. He is very confused... Ishilove Pocahontas Abeg naijaworld female and males, help me to advice him, I don't like the way he was behaving yesterday, he looks so moody

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