I have seen ladies who are well protected at home by their parents especially their fathers turn out to be the direct opposite of what their parents are afraid of or trying to avoid. My eyes have seen high ranking pastors daughters, and very strict parents become sex addicts without their parents knowing. Some of these ladies even take active part in not only singing but as well play active roles as choir leaders. Some of them even deliver sermons on the pulpit. There is this particular gurl above 20years that after giving mouth action would still carry on in church activities as if nothing happens. She is a chorister in her daddy church. The other one that cannot help it when it comes to her boobs but whose parents keep a close tab on at home. The question is would the parents be there to monitor her every movement when she goes back to school. How could someone who engage in mouth gig continue to lead church choir or even preach on the pulpit? Like the saying goes "fear who no fear woman". The bottom line is as follows "pikin wey go spoil go spoil, no matter the level of barriers or protection you put in place" The best you can do as parents is to pray that God in his infinite mercy give you God fearing children. My question is; why do girls turn out the direct opposite of what their parents are trying to avoid?