I'm Confused:; What Should I Do?

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naijaworlders, I need your piece of advice. Please, don't mind my grammar. Just focus on the message. I won't come and bore you with a long story though but here is my story: There was a girl I fell in love with when we were a little young, I really loved her as a lover but she loved me as a friend (like a plan B) owing to the reason that she was in a serious relationship then. During those time, I was pursuing my first degree in Sociology which she knew. After I knew that we couldn't be together, we parted ways. But unfortunately, I had to drop out of school after some series of carry-overs. Some years later after my drop-out saga, I later find my way into the university system studying another course that goes in line with my passion with no support at home (My dropping-out decision cause a lot of misunderstanding between my parents and I. I'm the one solely sponsoring myself in school. Though presently, I'm in 200 level at the moment). Few years later, we met in a shopping mall, we exchange contacts and I did the follow-up as per the guys' thing. I later heard from her that she is not in relationship at the moment. She is single and not at the moment ready to mingle. I was persistent to spend the rest of my life with her. This babe is already through with school and NYSC sef and she has started working but I'm still in my second year in school which I didn't tell her. I told her I've resigned from work but looking forward to start something on my own so that we can get married (I must confess, I've never seen any babe to make me feel in a great mood in my entire life. Should I talk about the way we are great friends? her deposits i.e. her facial and inner beauty compared with something upstairs?). She later agree to date me but this time for serious sake now. I've met with her parents, her siblings and even her pastor sef. BUT HERE IS WHERE THE PROBLEM LIES: I had lied to her and everyone of them. I had lied to them all that I finished from school and observed the compulsory NYSC sef. I never told them my dropping-out of school episode, I didn't because I don't want to lose my face but I really love this babe. Now the thing is this, I'm being pricked by my conscience to tell her everything. Even though, I don't want to lose my face, at the same time, I don't want to lose her. What are the chances for me house? P. S: I'm in my late 20s

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