Don't bash me please. Abeg no do am So I'm in a relationship with this girl. I love the girl. That I'm sure of with all certainty. . But sometimes she makes me question her feelings for me. Yes she says she loves me and all that but sometimes I believe it should be more than just words. I've told her I don't feel 'desired' in the relationship sometime ago and she said that's not true. But whenever I'm with her that how I feel especially when it comes to sex. We do not have sex frequently but each time we do, I always put in my best to satisfy her but most times she does nothing. Not lying like wood. No, She moves and touch and all that but she never puts in any effort to satisfy me. And once she's OK, it's over for that session. Now that I think about it, I've not even had an orgasm with her before and she will call it sex. Sometimes, I tend to blame it on her inexperience but I've had it all today and right now the only thing I'm thinking about is breaking up with her. And just this afternoon I asked her for a BJ after satisfying her. Like the previous time she said she can't/won't do it. I just got up and pull on my trousers. Though she started pleading with me to come to bed but I've lost interest then and the only thing on my mind is breaking up with her. I mean she's someone that you typically will beg to kiss and then when she sense you are angry she starts trying to put in effort. I'm just really tired. Just putting this out here.