Good day naijaworlders, There is this thing I have come to see recently and if you care to know why,it is the issue of getting pressured to get married.I have seen most young people getting undue pressures from friends,family and even church people begin to look at you like "When will it be,we are expecting your invitation soon',I personally don't think it is right pressuring people to go into marriage,I honestly think that the issue of marriage is basically optional. I am not saying that marriage is bad,but making it look like an 'achievement' or that something is wrong with you when you are not married or thinking in that direction is most times wrong. It is because of some of these pressures has made some persons get into marriages that they are unhappy being into today,because they want to belong to the married crew,they want to look or belong to a class,or just because they want to please some people whom may not even be there to know how far after the marriage . Yes,marry if you can but don't let it be because you are pressured to do so,and don't allow yourself to be seen as a failure if you are not married, it is not an achievement I repeat it is not an achievement. Plan your life,get a clear direction of your purpose,be open to relationships but be discreet,pray and be on the look out also for a potential mate that will work with you to achieve both of your purposes together, remember marriage is for a lifetime, don't be deceived to go into what you may regret tomorrow, calm down.