I Celebrated My Birthday Yesterday And This Has Been Happening

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There's this bro that has been dotting on me for long but I've been avoiding him because I know he's younger than me. Anytime we get talking, he'll always mention marriage and I would stylishly switched to another line of discussion. Sometime in December, he disclosed his intentions to me but i declined and we continued as friends until mid May when his aunt called me and said she would like to see me. I went and she tried to convince me to accept her nephew and all that. I just said ok, I'll think about it. The aunt told him I said ok and since then he's been all over the place trying to impress but I just act cool like we just friends. Fast forward to three days to my birthday, I told him, he was so excited and asked me how old, that he wants to order for a figure cake. When I told him, he was like, I'm kidding him. I told him, Ill be clocking 40 on the 18th ( being yesterday)., He said it's a lie that I'm 30 and he's going to order for figure 30 cake. I told him I won't accept it because that's not my age. He said I'm only claiming 40 to put him off. I got angry and left. Lo and behold, on the evening of my birthday, a delivery man called me out and delivered the cake and it was 30. Huh.. I immediately called him and told him I'm not accepting it. The delivery man too refused to take it back. He now drove by with his aunt cousine, requesting I blow the candle and cut the cake. I said no way! The aunt asked what was going on and I told her. The next thing he picked the cake and smashed it. Saying why should I disclose my age to his aunt. I got pissed and ordered him out of my house. The aunt too was angry at his behavior and left. He's been calling since yesterday to apologise. I told him apology accepted but I don't think we can get back because I can't be with someone who is not proud of my age. But he kept saying he doesn't believe I'm that age I'm claiming but that he doesn't mind. That he's willing to go ahead. Note, he's just 34. My worry now Is, is this not going to affect the relationship in the long run? And I have never and will never hide my Blessed age just because I want a man to marry me. So I don't care if the whole thing packs up but he's not allowed my phone to rest up till now and it's driving me nuts. This is why I've been avoiding him since. Please, what do I do?

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