Sorry for my bad English I'm going crazy right now, I meant this girl's February 2021, I ask her out, At first she was affriad to go out with me, because she didn't trust young guys, I managed to confused her, She later accepted.. our first date was wonderful, She fall in love completely, One day She decided to open up to me, That she do stay with an old man, She was having accomodations problem years back, her ex young boyfriend betrayed her, She slept in the street for months, The old man seen to be her sugar daddy then, She contacted The old man about her situation, finally the old man decided to offer her accomodations, food n clothes, Funny enough the old man is old enough to be her father, She's told me that she want to leave the man and countinue with me, because I'm different from other young guys she has meant, I should help her, I couldn't believe it, She beg me not to end the relationship, I promise her I will not betray her, We started working towards her documentation, work and accomodations, I told her I will do my best, God finally bless her with 5 years document 3 weeks ago, few days later she got a good job, I was so happy for her for the rapid success, definitely she's going to the government project with free accomodation and Free education no need for me to stress myself.. 3 days ago She called me that something happens, that she told the old man she's leaving for the government project, that man feel bad but accepted, to her biggest concern her father in Nigeria called her that the old man has send them money for traditional marriage, She confronted the old man, Why will you send my family money to prepare for traditional marriage without my concern, Why do you want to marry me now that I have job and document? The man told her, he wanted to surprise her bla bla, She told me that She want to run away, She later involved her Mother elder sister, because she lost her mother when she was age 4... The mother sister called to confirm if I truly love her the way she does, and i told her I do, I also involved my mother, The mother sister told me, if I can refund the money to the man, rent a house for the girl within her work place, I gave them assurance, getting accomodations within her working place is a bit difficult, The old man house serve as a help to her, She cannot stay in my place and be going to the work because I leave far from the work place.. She need the work more than anything. Getting job here is like impossible.. I have been down since 3 days... Funny enough the old man fix the traditional marriage on August 1, The old man is trying to use the weeding to hold the girl down, I really feel bad because the girl told me few months ago to do the introduction for her, I told her to wait till September, I feel I'm the one losing here, She's coming this weekend to visit me, Her father keep pushing her to marry the old man, I don't know what to do, these is the second girl I'm losing dis year... I don't wanna loose this girl.