It begs to mention to infinity that how far anyone will ever go highly depends on his/her ability to manage strategic (advantageous) relationships. Even If you are the best and yet no human being better or more connected than you could help you reach out to those who can recognize and reward what you carry, you will end up helpless. So it is safe to say that HUMAN BEINGS matter on this planet, if they so matter how comes very few have spent time to really understand the motivation behind an average person and how to work well with them? Believe me who likes you matters, who also hates you matters Good or evil comes to anyone bkos of the factor called humans, even if it's village people, the fact that someone is involve, should tell you that the person beside you matters! So how do we become effective in dealing with people and getting that which we desire? This not some manipulative, sociopathic, redpill or simp doctrines on how to get to people. Falsehood was never designed to last, it fails over time, so if you are false people will find out with time, and you will pay a big price for that level of betrayal. This is a narrative of being truthful and straight with people and build healthy relationships, so let's dig in. THE MOTIVATION THAT DRIVES HUMANS 1. SECURITY - this has to do with the state of sufficiency psychologically, emotionally and financially, this why some gentlemen/ladies prefer a rich person, it's also the reason people go to work, build businesses not just to generate money, but to have the leverage to protect themselves and their loved ones. So if you can sincerely provide for someone in a time of need you can build friendship through that. 2. Variety - monotony (doing the same thing) kills drive, routine bores people, that why married couples change sex positions, you change your meals, you go on date in different places, that's why we like new things. The ability to improve people's experience will do you good. 3. Significance - a place of respect and honour for people, their achievements, beauty, shape, looks, efforts and contributions. If you form habit of always seeing the bad in people (there's a place for that), you will hardly make genuine friends, no matter how little, respect and honour people. 4. Love and acceptance - we are emotional beings and so when we find what is attractive to us, the need to come close is in view, people love to belong, that's why religion, political parties, fraternity and social groups captures people. Rejection is not something people take lightly, hence the need to appreciate those who value what they have and those willing to accept them for their person, however you must establish boundaries based on your convictions. But this works 100%. 5. Growth - nobody loves to remain in the same state for long, that's why salary increase is important, more profit looks good, changing to higher positions is attractive. delay is dangerous, personally I hate it growth makes us become better people in society. So if you can help someone move up, be sure you have friend. 6. Impact and contributions - when you give out money to family, how do you feel (good right!) This is the reason behind foundations (Bill and Melinda Gates) comes to mind, it's not about the money but the betterment of lives and society. People love to contribute bkos it makes us feel good and gives us a sense of fulfilment. When last did you feel fulfilled? So next time you want to settle quarrels in your home or relationships or want to make a big man or anybody your friend, scan any of these six and apply Enjoy!!!