If there's one thing I love about men, it is their boldness to tell upfront what they desire from a woman. Whether it's shape, ability to cook or amazing sex skills. Women, on the other hand, often do not know how to identify what they NEED in a man. Asides "I want a rich man" or "he must be good looking", I noticed several young women don't have an idea on what to look out for in a man, to weed out unlikely suitors. Even the ones with set standards find themselves swaying once expensive gifts start rolling in. And as they grow older, the fear of "growing old in papa's house" becomes surreal. Get this, Standards will weed out unlikely suitors. Only the most suitable will remain.For example, choosing to stay celibate till marriage may seem like all the men will run away, but in reality, only unserious men will be forced to move. The one who loves you enough to wait will stay. Consider this example, people say "how can you buy a car you've not test driven?" But do you know that it's not every kind of car that can be test driven by just anybody? You can't just walk into a car dealership and ask to test drive a Ferrari or a Maybach. Lady, you're not a lorry to be test driven by just any man. You're a Ferrari. And Ferraris don't need to be advertised publicly like other cars. They know who their clients and buyers are! Their buyers will ALWAYS locate them. Set standards for yourself. If it means you wait, WAIT IT OUT. You're worth the wait. You are. My advice to the ladies: Write down 10 things you need, not want, NEED in a man. Start from there.