IN ALL YOU'RE GETTING, GET UNDERSTANDING... (Mutual understanding is more important than love) To love someone, to be able to understand someone is one of the most beautiful experiences of life. Mutual understanding in relationship, working place, schools and churches is very important. Relationships cannot be built in a day you need to give time, have mutual understanding, unconditional love, and patience. These are the four basic elements of a healthy relationship. Generally, much emphasis is laid on love, to fall in love with people who end up loving you, we can only have a good future with a person whom we love or they love us, without love you cannot be in a relationship. Love without understanding is just like flowers without fragrance.