Our Marriage Is Just 3 Years Old But I Am So Frustrated By My Husband’s Habits

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I need your advice on this matter.  I have been married for almost three years. My marriage is blessed with a daughter. Everything is going fine but my husband has an attitude that bothers me a lot. Yes, he is the romantic one…yes…he wants me to do certain things to spice up our s8x life which I am not comfortable with. What I didn’t bargain for was the fact that I just discovered that he is chatting with girls on social media and asking them for nude videos or pictures of them. I found out last year and that has been an issue for us. Initially, he apologized and said it was a mistake and he wouldn’t do it again but I found out that a few months later, he was still doing that. This habit of his has caused us so much trouble. I have talked and talked and even threatened to leave the marriage. He then said I should stop making a huge deal out of this: that he is not cheating…that he has no physical contact with the ladies…that he is just using it for fun. Because I realized how much he likes nudes…I make nudes and send him pics and videos of me in the nude…he likes them a lot but he is not satisfied…he keeps chatting with these women and they still send him his…His friend whom I talked to, asked me a very silly question: that is it not better he is only looking at videos or pictures or not actually going after these women. Like I said…my marriage is only three years…I don’t want to divorce. I am committed to making this work, so I am praying for him to come to his senses one day….until I found out that one of the ladies sending him nudes is actually his ex that he was in a relationship with for 4 years. This woman is even married o. And they even chatted that it would be nice for him and her to have a party with me….my husband responded to her that would be a dream come through…very dirty and evil-minded woman!…now thinking of having a party with me and my husband…I am finished…

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