After analysing tens of chat of guys with girls they newly added up on Facebook, you start seeing a trend in the chat and how boring the conversation is. Now imagine a girl receiving loads of the same chat all day long... She's not being rude when she reads and ignore your chat... It just that a lot of other guys are saying the same thing to her and you just came with the same repetition. Just imagine having to write 1 to 5 on every line on the page of a long exercise book and then repeating the same thing all through 80 pages. That's what replying to a boring chat looks like. Most guys chat are usually 1. The 'hi' stage: they come into the inbox with, hi, hello, sup, watsup or how far. 2. They either compliment her when she responded or they ask her how are you doing when she say hello back 3. They then ask if they can be friends or get to know her more or the one girls dread the most 'tell me about yourself' 4. After that most guys run out of things to say or start asking boring questions or pleading to get her number so they can call her. No building of rapport or attraction. No putting in the fun factor or making any effort to create a great first impression. I think the chat below will explain better. So if you've not been getting responses or fast responses, maybe you should check yourself. What do you think this guy could have done to improve his chances with the girl?